Hey, So me and my botfriend have been together for 3 years.. have a house a car and two dogs together!! I can honestly say that before i met him the thought of marriage kids and living with a male made me feel sick and i never wanted any of that! But since we got together it all changed! I want it all with him ! I love him!
My ex and i broke up 2 days ago because he was distant and said he doesnt love me anymore like he used to and when i asked him if he does have any love for me he said no
But… Recently hes been distant! He no longer seems interested in me, only ever cuddles,kisses or has sex with me when hes had an alcoholic drink and never compliments me or sends me nice messages or says or does anything slightly romantic.. This is not like him at all.. i feel unloved and tbh i feel like hes pushing me away and that he doesnt want to be with me anymore? What do you think?
Try to work on your self esteem and keep confident through this, give him his time. At some point in the near future he’ll confide in you. The more needy and stressed you’ll be, the more you’ll push him away. I hope this helps and good luck!
Something external to your relationship is going on with him and he is not telling you about it for some reason
The problem here is, im head over heels in love with him and we have a 2 month old little boy. He seems to not really care about us and is just having fun not being in a relationship supposedly. Im just not sure what to do. It hurts me so much to be away but i see i have no effect on him. Can i also mention this is long distance because of schooling. A week ago he was saying he would never love anyone else and from day to night he went from saying i was everything to being an “i dont love you anymore.” And he didnt want to work it out for our sake either. I just dont know what to do. Should i ask for him back for the sake of our child and my feelings or should i let him wild it up in the single life he seems so happy with.
To tell you the truth, if I were you I would let him be. I know it sounds hard, but if you want to face reality, you can’t really fight it. Even if you beg and plead and he’ll come back, it probably won’t last. Let him have his freedom for a while and see if he decides to come back on his own. I’m guessing that you are both very young? We can’t force anyone else to do what we want. When we try, we push them away even further. I believe (and you should too) that if you accept the way he is and give him his freedom – It’s the best way to allow him to understand what’s important for him. Hopefully that includes his child.
Hello me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now and we broke up a couple times because I need money and he couldn’t give it to me so I asked one of my old male friend but he was upset and broke up with me and now we are back together and a year later we moved into a apartment together, I kno that he still doesn’t trust me but he trying and just when I got him to trust me a bit better I did the same thing asked another man for money, now he is telling me when he is moving out when out lease is up and he don’t love me anymore yet he still takes me to family gatherings and spend time alone watching our favorite show and called me on the phone to have conversations and tell me good morning every morning. It hard to believe he is going to leave me if his actions shows different what do you think